does love have to be difficult?

Snobby girls pisses me off and they should be hoes.

keep it simple and you'll realise how easy it is to be truly happy
Be it anything in life.

girls.. being unreasonable is their nature and privilege... many a times.. being taken granted for...
but its for the sake of protecting themselves...

Guys... sometimes also take for granted.. after honeymoon period, many things diff...

well.. its different expectations and not enough understanding and compromises...

The course of true love never did run smooth... but its always worth it at the end of the day!




* I think la.....

im sooooo not looking forward to the time AFTER the honeymoon period.

euny wrote:

im sooooo not looking forward to the time AFTER the honeymoon period.

most ppl dun look forward to after honeymoon period i suppose lol...who will? once pass honeymoon period most relationship become stagnant =X

After my honeymoon period, well, things will still be the same except that the love making session will be extra passionate always.

Let's hope my future wife-to-be thinks the same aswell.

haha~~

jeRrRKKKK wrote:

do you think that love should happen naturally, couple meet, fall in love and live happily ever after?
or do you think that it is more realistic to say that a relationship is based on hard work... where both parties will land in quarrels, resolve quarrels... both parties are different from each other and there is always 1 party giving in to the other like should we eat at kfc or macdonalds?

i think that when i was younger, i believed in the concept of soulmates, where you meet, she's perfect and you fall in love... there'll be no quarrels, no conflicts, she likes everything i do, i like everything she does... we think the same, act the same and we do everything without any need of giving in or having to work for a relationship to happen...

when i grow older, i realise this is not possible and constant PR is needed... when she's down she wouldn't tell me, i have to know it myself...
when she's happy and i'm down, i have to cheer myself up so that i wouldn't pull her down with me...

is it natural that love is like this?

imho this applies to general and normal relationships only, love is a different concept!

If its not difficult its not love.

Getting into a relationship is easy , maintaining it is the hardest part!

Virgincess wrote:

If its not difficult its not love.

Getting into a relationship is easy , maintaining it is the hardest part!

I fcuking agree !!


cheers!

Okie I read something about bustop ladies being strong! Lolx

Being strong is one thing , allowing a man to take control of situation is very important... its like playing super big two card game...

keep things simple, lower expectations and be happy and contented...
most important things to keep a relationship...

but none can do it. cos we are human. human have greeds and expectations, thats why we can never be contented and happy...

Play ignorant? ya will just die even b4 a r/s started...

love hurts lar.. nothing much to say liao lar

we've broken up... her reason being i'm not the kind of guy she wants... she's been telling me this all the while...

i thought about this question again and does love have to be so difficult? I thought about it and my answer is yes. If it was supposed to be easy, then when you get married 1 of the vows wouldn't be to stick together thru thick and thin, for better and for worst...

Marriage Vows these days are so superfical~ Sorry but people break them all the time...

i hope i wont break mine

Vows and promises are meant to be said and broken...

its the heart that matters...

bottomline... not matter how you think, what you do, how hard you try..
if the other party still dont think you are the one and see in line with each other...
its pointless...

in relationship.. I realised its not how much effort and love you put in..
its how much your partner think you are putting in... its never enough...

I am starting to feel some pricks... I have a feeling I am going to bleed badly soon....

Wisely wrote:

Vows and promises are meant to be said and broken...

its the heart that matters...

bottomline... not matter how you think, what you do, how hard you try..
if the other party still dont think you are the one and see in line with each other...
its pointless...

in relationship.. I realised its not how much effort and love you put in..
its how much your partner think you are putting in... its never enough...

I am starting to feel some pricks... I have a feeling I am going to bleed badly soon....

true true.

Wisely wrote:

Vows and promises are meant to be said and broken...

its the heart that matters...

bottomline... not matter how you think, what you do, how hard you try..
if the other party still dont think you are the one and see in line with each other...
its pointless...

in relationship.. I realised its not how much effort and love you put in..
its how much your partner think you are putting in... its never enough...

I am starting to feel some pricks... I have a feeling I am going to bleed badly soon....

Before I even now... I am really bleeding now... badly... why dont just kill me?

love really hurts....

doesnt hurt its not love liao lor

love is nothing but some feelings.. unrealistic...
The hurt is also just a feeling... but its so real...

well.... love is never easy... you got to work a long way.. before u get the real happiness..

but then again... nowadays.. its just hard to find so-called everlasting love...

bottomline... love... is.. just.. difficult...

Pain.. very pain...