We can still be friends! :)

Subject: We can still be friends! :) Sun Dec 02, 2007 2:03 am

Funny how they rip our guts out and still want to be friends..

Even if the girl does not ask to be friends again, we on the other hand ( if we're not pissed) will..

Yet again, funny how we still want to be friends when they ripped our guts out...

scratch

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Sun Dec 02, 2007 12:20 pm

lol.. guys r peaceloving creatures (other than waging wars wif other countries..)

girls wan to be frens after breaking up cos they dun wan to feel guilty abt leaving...

guys on e other hand wan to be frens, cos we feel they may have some chance of reconciling if we maintain a fren fren relationship.. even if guys dun feel this way, we may still feel for the girl (esp right after the breakup), so we dun wan to haf a "void" where the gal used to be.. (at least i feel this way..)

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Sun Dec 09, 2007 4:02 pm

Depending how you feel about it, if you cant accept that kind of agreement, you can always say no.

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Sun Dec 09, 2007 9:47 pm

rapidburn wrote:: lol.. guys r peaceloving creatures (other than waging wars wif other countries..)

girls wan to be frens after breaking up cos they dun wan to feel guilty abt leaving...

guys on e other hand wan to be frens, cos we feel they may have some chance of reconciling if we maintain a fren fren relationship.. even if guys dun feel this way, we may still feel for the girl (esp right after the breakup), so we dun wan to haf a "void" where the gal used to be.. (at least i feel this way..)

*AHEM*

i dun agree that guys are peaceloving creatures..

and so far the gals i know..........so far it's mostly the guys who break the gals' hearts~

but i do know guys who sink into depression after a breakup.

Veteran Number of posts : 711 Registration date : 2007-11-22

i think that wanting to be friends after breaking up means that u either have no more feelings for the girl or think that theres a chance of reconciliation.

if i feel guilty, i wouldn't want to be friends at all cos i do not want the guy to come back to me

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[quote="euny]and so far the gals i know..........so far it's mostly the guys who break the gals' hearts~[/quote]

i dun like those fooking bastards too. i never be friends with them.

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Mon Dec 10, 2007 7:18 pm

Haiz ... Why ppl wan to fall in love

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Mon Dec 10, 2007 8:07 pm

ZeroFeng wrote:: Haiz ... Why ppl wan to fall in love

Love is for pussies. A man can be an island, you do not need a significant other to value life.

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Mon Dec 10, 2007 8:09 pm

Most girls break hearts too. So don't stereotype. Guys have feelings too. Sex is not that attractive to us. ( Most of us )

Anyone got a chainsaw?

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Mon Dec 10, 2007 8:09 pm

Mmmm ... I will take my words if i am u LestatWQ

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Mon Dec 10, 2007 8:09 pm

ZeroFeng wrote:: Mmmm ... I will take my words if i am u LestatWQ

Don't fall in love?

Veteran Number of posts : 1174 Registration date : 2007-11-21

I dont think its that way with everyone. It depends on the person. If u were friends before u became lovers, but something happens n u end ur relationship, it doesn't mean u end ur friendship.

why do we always stereotype a guy for being something or a girl for being something else? yes, girls r more emotional but not everyone is the same way. same with guys, some of them r ruled by their dicks..doesn't mean all of them r players n go ard having sex.

its our personality.

so, if the relationship ended on a mutual agreement, yes, friendship after relationship is possible. but if it was a horrible break up, there is no friendship left..esp for the one who was hurt the most.

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:20 pm

K3nn3th wrote:

euny wrote:: and so far the gals i know..........so far it's mostly the guys who break the gals' hearts~

i dun like those fooking bastards too. i never be friends with them.

kenek ah kenek, maybe one day you'll join the fooking-bastards club... so dun say so fast~~

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:23 pm

ZeroFeng wrote:: Haiz ... Why ppl wan to fall in love

i didnt mean to fall in love.. i even promised myself to untangle myself from all those emotional knots 1.5 months ago, decided to get over my crush on one guy and oso break up with another guy.

now look at me, im blissfully attached to a guy whom i least expected to be together with~

so it's not whether pple want to or not. it's uncontrollable.

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:29 pm

and i broke up with my ex on mutual agreement.. and i still want him as a fren cos we're just not compatible as a couple.. it's not whether i felt guilty or not.. it's just that to lose the companionship of someone just bcos of a breakup, is just not worth it..

but he hasnt been contacting me ever since we broke up..

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Tue Dec 11, 2007 6:53 pm

hmm.. thats one of the reasons why i dun go after my female frens when i am looking for a gf.. dun wan to end up losing a fren if it doesnt work out in the end.. haiz...

hmm euny, maybe u can try contacting him instead? for old times sakes?

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Wed Dec 12, 2007 1:30 am

as long as nt in my case can le
say will still be friends after tt, (unfaithfulness involved)
yet in the end, she treat me as stranger and "dua tao"
till i fed up, no friend dun friend la!
pay ur own damn bills!

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Wed Dec 12, 2007 4:42 pm

HUh.... no friend= no pay bills?

Hur? I dun get it...

In life .... just be easy and happier and accept things the way they are.. whether it is good or bad... just move on...

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:13 pm

pay ur own damn bills?!?!?!

:O

cheers!

Veteran Number of posts : 711 Registration date : 2007-11-22

dawugui wrote:: as long as nt in my case can le
say will still be friends after tt, (unfaithfulness involved)
yet in the end, she treat me as stranger and "dua tao"
till i fed up, no friend dun friend la!
pay ur own damn bills!

wow pay bills!

ATM!

can i be ur gf pls? *bats eyelash*

Veteran Number of posts : 711 Registration date : 2007-11-22

wait.. is it eyelash or eyelids.. lolz. ok its eyelids..

w/e not that impt.

edit button up pls.

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euny wrote:: kenek ah kenek, maybe one day you'll join the fooking-bastards club... so dun say so fast~~

euny, sometimes u said somethings can be very worng.... if u dun know about my real life. u better shut up.

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Thu Dec 13, 2007 8:10 pm

Chill K3nn3th, she was just saying.

It's just sad how males treat females as objects for their carnal desires. No wonder mankind is dumber. Ugly people are smart while Good looking people are stupid or just average.

Thank god for people like me.

Subject: Re: We can still be friends! :) Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:37 pm

K3nn3th wrote:

euny wrote:: kenek ah kenek, maybe one day you'll join the fooking-bastards club... so dun say so fast~~

euny, sometimes u said somethings can be very worng.... if u dun know about my real life. u better shut up.

kenek ah kenek, are you veri sure that you'll be the same man in the next 20 yrs, with the same thinking that you're not a fooking bastard and that that you'll remain faithful to your gal?

are you that sure?

is there any guarantee?

if you're 100% sure, i will shut up.

it's not abt knowing your real life.
im not that interested in the first place Wink

Veteran Number of posts : 711 Registration date : 2007-11-22

at times, being faithful would be out of the box.

shit happens, thats life.

u can't control ur feelings, u dun want to hurt both, wat can u do?

there would be 1 hurt party or 3 hurt parties..

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