jus wondering..

do yall prefer more friends?

or 1 or 2 friends that are closer to u.. know u inside out?

i prefer 1 or 2 closer friends.. but it seems that all my friends do not really know me well enough =\\

I rather want just 1 very close buddy... than to have many friends.. and at the end of the day when you needed someone to talk to, there isn't any..

agreed with liyun, 1 best friend to talk to. more friends are fun when u are in a groups doing stuffs together. movies, eating etc etc

liyun wrote:

I rather want just 1 very close buddy... than to have many friends.. and at the end of the day when you needed someone to talk to, there isn't any..

ya.. sux balls..

i have more hi and bye friends which really suck. sometimes wanna jio them out oso a bit paiseh cos we're not that close enough =\\

1 or 2 close frens. better than having many ppl who dun realli understand u and abandon u when u r in need.

for me, i have 3 really close friends n thats enough for me. for others, friends to chat with, go out with. but to really share my thoughts with, these r my 3 best friends. I've known them since poly.

But I tend to be the one to carry the load for them n its a heavy load but I still wouldn't change it for the world

1 to 2 friend .. easy to talk all.

diversify your investments. Have more friends = more potential to become future close friends.

1 or 2 close friends will get married, have children and eventually have no time for you.

Know more friends. as surface the friends might appear to be now, they still have their own depth and individualism and who's to say you won't become closer to them in the future?

yeah coldrain how true that is...

bleahz wrote:

ya.. sux balls..

i have more hi and bye friends which really suck. sometimes wanna jio them out oso a bit paiseh cos we're not that close enough =\\

going out still not a problem.. the most sucky feeling is when you are really down.. and wanna talk to someone... but in your mind.. there's isnt anyone...

Hi-bye friends... can play together... but when it comes to sharing of problem.. how are we to talk to them and bear our hearts out?

liyun wrote:

bleahz wrote:

ya.. sux balls..

i have more hi and bye friends which really suck. sometimes wanna jio them out oso a bit paiseh cos we're not that close enough =\\

going out still not a problem.. the most sucky feeling is when you are really down.. and wanna talk to someone... but in your mind.. there's isnt anyone...

Hi-bye friends... can play together... but when it comes to sharing of problem.. how are we to talk to them and bear our hearts out?

u know u can share with me rite?

i took some pysche courses in uni...

cheers!

pingy.. if i get to know u better.. i sure kena in jail and get rotan...

just be tick skin and ask pple out! be pro-active!
best frens are sort of hit and miss..
its the expereinces together which bonds the friendship

cheers!

liyun wrote:

going out still not a problem.. the most sucky feeling is when you are really down.. and wanna talk to someone... but in your mind.. there's isnt anyone...

Hi-bye friends... can play together... but when it comes to sharing of problem.. how are we to talk to them and bear our hearts out?

YAR!!! TOTALLY AGREED!!!

liyun wrote:

bleahz wrote:

ya.. sux balls..

i have more hi and bye friends which really suck. sometimes wanna jio them out oso a bit paiseh cos we're not that close enough =\\

going out still not a problem.. the most sucky feeling is when you are really down.. and wanna talk to someone... but in your mind.. there's isnt anyone...

Hi-bye friends... can play together... but when it comes to sharing of problem.. how are we to talk to them and bear our hearts out?

ANS: a few rounds of vodka.

liyun wrote:

bleahz wrote:

ya.. sux balls..

i have more hi and bye friends which really suck. sometimes wanna jio them out oso a bit paiseh cos we're not that close enough =\\

going out still not a problem.. the most sucky feeling is when you are really down.. and wanna talk to someone... but in your mind.. there's isnt anyone...

Hi-bye friends... can play together... but when it comes to sharing of problem.. how are we to talk to them and bear our hearts out?

hi-bye friends r just that. u dont share all ur deep dark secrets with them..unless u want to but dont expect them to stick ard, just have some laughs n good times, thats it.

U'll know which r the hi-bye friends as u get to know them better n which r the ones who'll stay with u.

U'll cross paths with hundreds of ppl but only a few will stay with u. Be glad for these few n happy for the other hundreds u've met n who may have brought sunshine in ur life..

there are just so many hi-bye frens~

but there are frens meant for life.

i have a few frens whom i have known since primary skool, not say very long considering the fact that im just 19 yrs old, but it's been so long..

there's this guy fren whom i have known for 10 yrs, and i treasure this frenship a lot cos i spent the happiest moments of my childhood with him and him alone.. budden last year he told me that he got crush on me for quite some time~~ so i dunno how to maintain this relationship such that it wont make him hopeful in being my bf *headache*

more friends is GOOD to have but not MUST to have...
if only can choose between more friend or juz 1 close friend who understand u n can be always there for u i will take the second option

liyun wrote:

I rather want just 1 very close buddy... than to have many friends.. and at the end of the day when you needed someone to talk to, there isn't any..

dam thats selfish to have a friend just for that purpose .. !

euny wrote:

there are just so many hi-bye frens~

but there are frens meant for life.

i have a few frens whom i have known since primary skool, not say very long considering the fact that im just 19 yrs old, but it's been so long..

there's this guy fren whom i have known for 10 yrs, and i treasure this frenship a lot cos i spent the happiest moments of my childhood with him and him alone.. budden last year he told me that he got crush on me for quite some time~~ so i dunno how to maintain this relationship such that it wont make him hopeful in being my bf *headache*

maybe u should ask urself wat u want but think carefully.

the problem with a best friend being a bf.. ok.. choy *touchwoord* wat if yall break up or something. it'll be hard to talk and hard being best friends again sometimes, hard being close as maybe 1 party would ignore the other..

a friendship is always different after a r/s

yar~

i know i dun want him as a bf.

yea~

i know him too well, and i want a guy who's older, wiser, stronger. but this fren of mine dun really meet those~~

yeah please keep things pure, dun mix and remix friends with best friends bfs and

euny wrote:

there are just so many hi-bye frens~

but there are frens meant for life.

i have a few frens whom i have known since primary skool, not say very long considering the fact that im just 19 yrs old, but it's been so long..

there's this guy fren whom i have known for 10 yrs, and i treasure this frenship a lot cos i spent the happiest moments of my childhood with him and him alone.. budden last year he told me that he got crush on me for quite some time~~ so i dunno how to maintain this relationship such that it wont make him hopeful in being my bf *headache*

hmm.. well, if u tell him that you alrd haf a bf, and that u r nt realli interested in him, tink he will noe to back off one lar.. i am sure he values the friendship enuff nt to do stupid things. the main thing is u mus explain that he is nt wat u r looking for in a bf, but u luv him for wat he is (as a fren). cos if u dun, he will try and change to become wat u wan.. (minus the old part?)

for me, i dun haf any childhood frens of the opp sex ba.. mostly hi-bye ones.. but i do haf a few guy pals that i can pour my heart out to and who pour their hearts out to me, so i am glad

euny wrote:

yar~

i know i dun want him as a bf.

yea~

i know him too well, and i want a guy who's older, wiser, stronger. but this fren of mine dun really meet those~~

see, u know urself well. tell him that =)

happened to me too once.. argh.

why is it so hard to maintain a platonic r/s without any romantic feelings between a girl and a guy?

zzz.